Benjamin seems to becoming popular with the specialists:
Our visit today yields yet more appointments
- Urologist -
- Neurologist
- Psychologist
- a few more ists as well…
So here is Ben’s story thusfar:
Ben was born a delightful, social baby and loved to be held and cuddled. His huge hazelish brown eyes with their unusually long, dark lashes gazed into our eyes and captivated all of us.
He played with his toys and was a very happy little boy. Right on cue he reached all the usual milestones—talking, walking and all the things a young child learns to do. He began to make sounds that soon evolved into words that strung together to became sentences. He never really ut took to walking very very quickly.
Recently Benjamin started to change: Some things have been taking place over time that they were hard for us to notice - A mommy trained to be a Special Ed teacher - and a Daddy with no clue…
This insidious change began so slowly that we did’t’t notice anything unusual at first. He started to take toys away from his sisters and other children, sometimes hitting or pinching to make them cry.
Recently when Benjamin is pulled aside and scolded or given a time out for his actions he will just wait quietly, entertaining himself until it is time to play again, and then he will resume his disruptive behavior.
Even more recent - we have noticed he seems withdrawn and doesn’t pay attention when people speak to him or tell him stories. He has started fixating on things and can play for hours and hours with that one object. Also, he becomes very upset if he is guided to something else. He wanted to keep doing what he had been doing. Change bothers him immensely. It is getting extremely hard to get him to do something that is outside his normal routine- with some minor exceptions like going to the movies…
Many of the behaviors he exhibits are just normal little boy behaviors - but others are part of the asperger Syndrome spectrum.
The good news is - Mommy is doing well handling this situation -
God has given Benjamin, Kerianna, Eileeen and Amelia to us for a reason, and… having a wife who is trained in Special Education (- and with the specialty of Autism no less) I can’t help but think if this is the situation - God has a plan - God has given Ben to the right set of parents …
of course - we have a lot more to learn, work with and grow into…
and … of course - the Dr could be wrong - thus the reason for all of the Doctor”igsts” we will be visiting in the near future.
It might just be something minor - or it could be major - but whatever this is - We will be able to work with it through the grace of Jesus.